Most homeschooling parents feel pretty confident. They know they made a
great decision to homeschool their kids, are they're making it work for
them. The kids are doing well, the parents love the outcome, and all
is well. But trouble does arise sometimes, even in the most dedicated
and well-organized homeschooling households. If you need
homeschool help, you're not alone! We all need help sometime,
but how do you know when it's time to ask for some assistance?
When You're New
Obviously, newbies are going to have some questions. Don't be afraid to
ask! Are you wondering about the homeschooling laws in your state? Or
how to arrange a Drivers' Ed class for your teenager? How
do
you teach phonics to a kindergartener, anyway? And what's the best math
curriculum out there? If you're new to homeschooling, you aren't going
to automatically know these answers, so you'll need to find someone who
does. The internet is helpful, but it's a smart move to find other
homeschoolers in your local area and join a support group to meet other
families who've been through the same thing and can guide you.
Homeschoolers are a really helpful bunch, so if you have a
question....ASK!
When Something Isn't Working
Is your child just not getting those multiplication tables memorized, no
matter what you do? Are they having trouble with handwriting, or
reading skills? Maybe you're frustrated by the amount of "busy work" in
the curriculum you've chosen not challenging your child enough? There
are a thousand reasons you may be dissatisfied with how things are
going.
You might consider shopping around for a different curriculum that fits
your child's needs better. You might also seek professional guidance,
as in the case of suspected dyslexia or seeking occupational therapy for
serious handwriting concerns. It could be helpful for you speak with
other parents in your support group and and ask how their own kids did with
learning math facts and multiplication tables.
When You're Out Of Your League
I have no idea how to teach my daughter Calculus, and I'm not much for
Art or Music class, either. So I have my kids taking some co-op classes
where other homeschool moms who do know Art and Music are doing a great
job at imparting that knowledge to my children. And my daughter is
getting help with Calculus there too! The same principle holds for
foreign langauges - if you don't happen to speak Spanish or have French
immigrants living next door, teaching your kids a foreign language is
going to be difficult, even with the most well-intentioned curriculum.
Get some help!
Don't keep beating a dead horse. If you don't understand how to
accomplish the goal you've set for your kids, or you run into roadblocks
along the way, don't be afraid to ask for help. We've all been there,
and if you ask for help when you need it, you'll be more confident in
helping someone else someday too!